Do couples therapy with a psychologist in Paris 9

Since relationships reveal our individual difficulties, because they can bring out the best but also the worst, they are often the fertile ground for a certain amount of suffering and misunderstanding.

Despite loving each other, this emotional trauma can tear a couple apart. But it does not have to be that way. In Paris or elsewhere, it is possible to look for a psychologist to do couples therapy to help untangle situations that seem to be impossible to resolve.

Indeed, the difficulties in a couple are most often linked to the fact that each partner brings up difficulties linked to the past in the relationship, sometimes without even realising it. Between, for example, the fear of abandonment or rejection, excessive jealousy or the desire to be loved unconditionally, couple relationships can easily awaken relational difficulties that have been dormant, sometimes since childhood.

Why do couples therapy?

Doing couple therapy, in Paris 9 or elsewhere, therefore aims to deal with these difficulties which have repercussions in the couple, on a daily basis: from resentment to incomprehension, from disappointment to bitterness, from communication problems to disorders of sexuality, psychotherapy or psychoanalysis aims to (re)build a peaceful couple relationship, that is a relationship where love finds itself purified of the obstacles that prevent it from developing.

To enable this change, meeting a couples psychologist to do couple sessions is not enough because the latter do not allow us to deal with the underlying problems, i.e. the unconscious relational patterns that are repeated in the couple. Indeed, resolving the unconscious blockages that prevent us from flourishing as a couple requires that both members of the couple can each do psychotherapeutic work. Even if they do not do this work at the same time or even if only one of the two meets a couples psychologist, we can see that as soon as one of the two members of the couple begins their psychotherapy, the new positioning that they construct within the couple can quickly awaken the desire of the other member to take care of him.

Whether it is carried out with the same couple psychologist or with two different couple psychologists, if possible belonging to the same School of psychoanalysis, psychotherapy will act in the couple by allowing each person to get rid of unconscious patterns, which he updates, without knowing it, in his relationship as a couple.

By resolving these pathological functionings that each person sets up, unknowingly, within the couple, psychotherapy with a couple psychologist can therefore help avoid unnecessary separations. Because behind the resentment and the misunderstandings which prevent both discussions and the expression of one's love, the latter can reveal itself as still alive.

So, if you are looking for a couples psychologist in Paris 9, do not hesitate to contact me directly or make an appointment on doctolib.

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